We Made It

- Carissa Woodwyk

Ahhh! It’s my first "end of school" week. All the marvelous 7.5 hours a day with her gone and just me and the little guy or me by myself, are winding down. Fast. Shoot! 

I've absolutely and totally LOVED this school season - all that's been a part of her world, all that's not been a part of my world in those 7.5 hours. And I say that in a very grateful way, in a way that says I can be a mommy who absolutely adores my little girl, while at the very same time also be a mommy who absolutely can feel worn out by all the needs of my little girl.

Both/And.

I think about ALL that each adult person has offered her this year - academically, socially, emotionally, physically. And I’m grateful.

And I think about ALL that each little person has offered her this year - friendship and fun and social skills. And I’m grateful.

And I think about ALL that each caretaker has offered this year and I want to give a shout out to YOU - marvelous you. Thank you for what you've offered your kids this year: the someone’s-gonna-lose outfit picking process, packing lunches, getting them to school with or without teeth brushed or hair combed, managing crabby mornings, getting their buns in the car or on the bus, saying NO to yourself because you needed to say YES to their sports and music and taxi ride schedules, the hours of helping with homework that was SO like 20+ years ago for you (that you now realize you needed very little of), and all the other stuff that happens in between this stuff.

Whether you're a "traditional" parent, single parent, grandma/grandpa caretaker, full-time working parent(s) - you've done your best. They made it. WE made it.

WE ALL ROCK!

Let's step into this last week, these last days, with a sense of pride and gratitude because WE DID OUR BEST with what we had to work with. And that's what matters.

So as they sing their end-of-the-year-program song or walk across that stage, stand up and cheer and clap and smile...for them, for you.

HAPPY END OF SCHOOL 2014!

Carissa Woodwyk is a writer, speaker, counselor/marriage and family therapist, wife, mom, advocate for the human heart. In each of these roles, she offers her story and voice in ways that invite people to connect with themselves, with others, with God. She is a co-author of Before You Were Mine: Discovering Your Adopted Child's Lifestory. She and her husband have two children and live near Grand Rapids, MI. Read more from Carissa on her blog, catch up with her on facebook and twitter